tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post7116686183029234881..comments2024-03-06T03:29:47.163-05:00Comments on Wistfulgirl's World: Fear and DepressionLynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07920969824307697368noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post-15932049641513376502011-08-13T20:56:44.022-04:002011-08-13T20:56:44.022-04:00It sucks. We didn't get picked again this wee...It sucks. We didn't get picked again this week by a birth mother. I'm so over this roller coaster. Hang in there. But that is easy to say and being in a similar situation I can say I would shrug it off if someone said it to me. <br /><br />I will offer this opinion. I totally get your decision. We are doing the homestudy now and we started in June but will not have the visit to our home until this Friday. There are 3 visits before they even come to your home. (at least that is how our social worker is doing it) I would at the very least start all the damn paperwork. The FBI prints take the longest so if you haven't done that do it ASAP it took 9 weeks for us to get our results back. I think if you have everything in order so all they have left is to visit your home and write up the final report it would work perfectly with you waiting for that final step after you are in your new home. It would be crazy to try doing all that paperwork, all the buying a house paperwork and move. That is just my opinion and you can blow it off as you wish. <br /><br />((hugs)) I'll keep my fingers crossed.junebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16597959014121851131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post-18295621797430846202011-08-11T22:03:56.476-04:002011-08-11T22:03:56.476-04:00This journey isn't easy... and tears are a nat...This journey isn't easy... and tears are a natural part of it. Hang in there hon. Praying that your path becomes clear soon.Mrs. Gamgeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351339333625358960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post-7831275343407772972011-08-11T21:53:22.951-04:002011-08-11T21:53:22.951-04:00I am so sorry to hear that you are feeling low. I...I am so sorry to hear that you are feeling low. I think it's safe to say I know how you feel. There are so many things going on in your life. I pray that you will find peace. I have been reading your blog for awhile, but rarely comment. I truly believe with all my heart that you and the hubs are meant to be parents. A child will come to be that is meant to be yours whether through pregnancy or adoption. I wish I could look into my magic crystal ball and give you all the specifics, but I can't. Please know that if there are days that you feel down and find it hard to hope, there are people in the world who will hope for you(like me). I am sending you big HUGS and hope things will start looking up very soon.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03241246199857026259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post-86954009746100863402011-08-11T19:22:26.254-04:002011-08-11T19:22:26.254-04:00Oh honey, I wish I could just snap my fingers or w...Oh honey, I wish I could just snap my fingers or wiggle my nose and guarantee that Juno would pick you. You are going to be the most awesome mommy and I can't wait until the day I get to celebrate that with you.<br /><br />Good luck finding a house. Are you working with a Real Estate agent? It might be worth it to speed that process along.<br /><br />{{{Hugs}}} and love my friend.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365326280215821855.post-73518448537647522011-08-11T12:24:31.167-04:002011-08-11T12:24:31.167-04:00I can relate to your words. It is a hard process, ...I can relate to your words. It is a hard process, and the tears flow freely in our house too. I totally understand your desire to have a home of your won. I thin it could be a great distraction for you in this waiting time, and something positive you cold be working on to prepare for your baby in the wait ahead. I know our home has been something fun for us to work on, and now as we begin our adoption process we are looking forward to decorating and hanging pictures etc to prepare for our home study and eventually we know that the work and love we put into our home ill be a gift to our child. Bless you on your journey. I look forward to following your story.Chrissiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15615220571295789613noreply@blogger.com